Book Name:Condemnation Of Love For The World
Remaining Sunan and etiquettes of shaking hands and hugging
1. Shaking hands removes animosity between people.[1]
2. It is not a sunnah to use only one hand when shaking hands; it is a sunnah to use both hands. Some people only touch their fingers together; this is also not from the Sunnah.[2]
3. When shaking hands, it is from the Sunnah to not have anything, like a handkerchief, in between; the palms should touch. Each person should make both of their right hands touch in a way that the right hand of each of them is between both hands of the other.[3]
4. When shaking hands, each person should lightly squeeze the thumb of the other person. The wisdom behind this is that the thumb contains a vein that creates love when squeezed.[4]
5. Some people kiss their own hand after shaking hands; this is makrūh (disliked).[5]
6. It is a sunnah to hug.[6]
7. The beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم welcomed Sayyidunā JaꜤfar b. Abī Ṭālib رَضِىَ الـلّٰـهُ عَـنْهُ by hugging him and kissing him between his eyes.[7]
8. It is a tradition for Muslims to hug after Eid salah, and this is a way of expressing happiness. Hugging is permissible, so long as it does not result in tribulation, such as hugging an attractive young boy.[8]
صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
[1] 101 Madani Phool, p. 7
[2] 101 Madani Phool, p. 8
[3] Derived from bahar-e-Shari’at, vol. 3, p. 471
[4] Bahar-e-Shari’at, vol. 3, p. 471 derived
[5] Derived from bahar-e-Shari’at, vol. 3, p. 471
[6] Bahar-e-Shari’at, vol. 3, p. 472
[7] Derived from Fatawa Ridawiyyah, vol. 8, p. 614
[8] Abi Dawud, vol. 4, p. 455, Hadith 5220