Book Name:Jhagray Ke Nuqsanaat
So how unwise are the Muslims who cannot spend their life without picking a quarrel unrightfully. Such Muslims should fear that if Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ is displeased with them due to fights and quarrels, they will fall into disgrace and humiliation. Thus goodness lies in it that a person should keep in mind the disadvantages of fights and quarrels and should avoid them. For example, if someone quarrels with us without any reason, even then we should avoid quarrelling with her despite being just, by controlling our anger. Remember! The fortunate person, who does not quarrel despite being just, will attain success اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: I guarantee a home in the (inner) corner of Paradise to the one who does not pick a quarrel despite being rightful. (Abu Dawood, vol. 4, pp. 332, Hadees 4800)
Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ humbly requests in The Divine Court:
ہر وَقْت جہاں سے کہ اُنہیں دیکھ سکوں میں جنّت میں مجھے ایسی جگہ پیارے خُدا دے
Dear Islamic sisters! Keeping in mind the above-mentioned blessed Hadees, if we study the life of pious predecessors رَحِمَهُمُ الـلّٰـهُ تَـعَالٰی, it will become as clear as day that these personages would act upon the blessed Hadees completely and would always avoid fights and quarrels, because they were not so-called devotees of Rasool, but rather they were filled with the true devotion to Rasool. Further, if someone quarrelled with them without any reason, so these Allah-loving people did not quarrel with them despite being right, but rather they would resolve the matter properly. Impressed with their splendid manners their opponents would also stop quarrelling and agree to get reconciled with them. Let’s listen to a faith-refreshing parable about it and rejoice.