Four sayings about the condemnation of fights and quarrels

     1The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: The most unliked person in the blessed Court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ is the one who is the most quarrelsome. (Bukhari, vol. 2, pp. 193, Hadees 2457)

     2The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: The person who quarrels without any reason always displeases Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ, until he gives it up. (Musu’at La Ibn Abi Dunya, vol. 7, pp. 111, Hadees 153)

     3The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: No nation has ever gone astray after remaining on the right path, but due to quarrels. (Tirmizi, vol. 5, pp. 170, Hadees 3264)

    4The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: A bondman cannot attain the excellence in the reality of Iman [faith], until he stops quarrelling despite being right. (Musu’at Ibn Abi Dunya, vol. 7, pp. 101, Hadees 139)

کوئی دُھتکارے یا جھاڑے بلکہ مارے صَبْر کر     مَت جھگڑ ، مت بَڑبَڑا ، پا اَجر ربّ سے صَبْر کر

صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                                                                   صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic sisters! From the above-mentioned blessed Ahadees it has become obvious that Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ does not like a quarrelsome person because she displeases Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ. Quarrelling leads a person astray and the one who quarrels despite being right cannot become perfect in the reality of Iman until she stops quarrelling. 

Evils of Quarrel

Sayyiduna Imam Ibn-e-Hajar Makki رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has said: Whether quarrels are for the right cause even then their abundance makes a person perform impermissible acts, (Jahannum mayn lay janay walay A’maal, vol. 2, pp. 674). A small evil (of quarrels) is that a quarrelsome person’s heart is occupied with quarrels even when offering Salah. (Jahannum mayn lay janay walay A’maal, vol. 2, pp. 706)