Deprived of blessings

Dear Islamic sisters! One of the disadvantages of fights and quarrels is that its curse deprives a person of many blessings. For example, during a fight and quarrel someone gets a head injury, so someone loses her eye, someone breaks her arm, so someone receives an injury on her leg, someone gets her vertebra [any of the small bones that are connected together to form the spine] violently pulled, so someone loses her teeth, someone’s relative or friend loses her life, so someone falls victim to death. Remember! Fights and quarrels not only have many worldly disadvantages, but they also become the cause of many deprivations from the religious viewpoint.  For example, every Muslim knows that the night of Qadr is the great night in which the Holy Quran was descended; it [this night] is better than 1000 months; there is a blessed Surah regarding the excellence of this night in the Holy Quran [part 30], but the determination of this blessed night has also been kept hidden due to the fight between two Muslims.

Reason for keeping Night of Qadr hidden

Sayyiduna Ubadah Bin Saamit رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ has said that the Beloved Rasool
صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم came to tell us about the night of Qadr, two Muslim men started fighting. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: I came to tell you about the night of Qadr, but so-and-so started fighting, so the determination of the night of Qadr was lifted, maybe this act of it being lifted is better for you; now find it in the last ninth, seventh, fifth (night of blessed Ramadan). (Bukhari, vol. 1, pp. 662, Hadees 2023)

In relation to this blessed Hadees Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has said: The quarrel of these people was un-rightful and was more than a moderate level that has produced this effect. It has become obvious that worldly quarrels are a curse; their evil effect is very severe; due to them, the mercy of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ, which is on the way, stops. (Miraat-ul-Manajeeh, vol. 3, pp. 210)

Let’s make an intention that we will not fight and quarrel; we will try to act upon the Sunnah of making reconciliation between Muslims who are fighting and quarrelling. If someone makes us angry, we will be patient; we will avoid the acts which add fuel to the fire of fights and quarrels such as untruth,