Book Name:Jhagray Ke Nuqsanaat
٭Mufti
Ahmad Yar Khan رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی
عَلَيْه has said: First make your
right foot enter after reciting بِسۡمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحۡمٰنِ الرَّحِيۡم through the door
at the time of entering home. Then saying Salaam to family members go inside
the home. If there is no one at home, say اَلسَّلامُ
عَلَیْکَ اَیُّہاَ النَّبِیُّ وَ رحْمَۃُ اللہِ وَ بَرَکاتُہ ٗ.
Some pious predecessors have been observed that they
recite
بِسْمِ اللہِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْم and قُلْ ھُوَ
اللہ at the time of entering home in the beginning of the day as it
maintains unity at home (that is, quarrel does not break out) and brings
blessing in sustenance. (Mirat-ul-Manajeeh,
vol. 6, pp. 9) Beseech in the court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ in
order to get rid of fights and quarrels and make Du’a raising your hands with
tearful eyes for achieving salvation from fights and quarrels.
٭Read again and again the blessed Ahadees and narrations, parables and sayings of Islamic saints about the virtues of avoiding fights and quarrels and disadvantages of having fights and quarrels.
٭Become humble.
٭Avoid the company of quarrelsome friends.
٭Control your anger.
٭Study the booklets namely, ‘Zulm ka Anjaam’ (Catastrophic Consequences of Cruelty), ‘Ihtiraam-e-Muslim’ (The Respect of a Muslim), ‘Ghusay ka Ilaaj’ (Cure for Anger) and the book namely, ‘Takleef na dijiye’. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ you will make up your mind to avoid fights and quarrels.
Teaching us and giving us the Madani pearls of advice, Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat, Allamah Maulana Abu Bilal Muhammad Ilyas Attar Qaadiri Razavi Ziya’ee دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ has said:
تُو نرمی کو اپنانا جھگڑے مٹانا رہے گا سدا خُوشْنُما مَدَنی ماحول
تُو غُصّے جھڑکنے سے بچنا وگرنہ یہ بدنام ہوگا تِرا مَدَنی ماحول