backbiting, tale-telling, envy, arrogance, breaking of a promise, unnecessary stubbornness, stinginess, insult, insensitivity, shouting, swearing, criticising, racism and oppression. If someone provokes us to fight, even then we will not fight and quarrel, but rather we will make Satan unsuccessful in its effort. We will remain associated with the Madani environment of Dawat-e-Islami, the Madani movement of devotees of Rasool, in order to attain this Madani thought. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ

تم کو کچھ معلوم ہے یارو! مجھے          دعوتِ اسلامی سے کیوں پیار ہے

ہے کرم اِس پر خدائے پاک کا         دعوتِ اسلامی سے یُوں پیار ہے

اِس پہ ہے نظرِ کرم سرکار کی          دعوتِ اسلامی سے یُوں پیار ہے

صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                                                                   صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Another reason for fight is tale-telling:

Dear Islamic sisters! Remember! Fights and quarrels do not break out themselves, but rather there is a reason behind them. When the cause exists, fights or quarrels begin. Another reason for fights and quarrels is tale-telling. Remember! To mention what someone has told you to someone else for creating disturbance is called tale-telling. (‘Umdat-ul-Qaari, vol. 2, pp. 594, Taht-al-Hadees 216)

Alas! No matter whether it is the gathering of friends or gathering after a religious Ijtima, a wedding ceremony or session of condolence, a meeting with someone or talking to someone on phone if we have a chance to talk to someone and if a sensitive person having Islamic knowledge looks into our conversation so perhaps she may prove dozens of tale-tellings along with other sinful words in majority of our gatherings. Listen to an admonitory parable about the destruction of tale-telling and make intention to abstain from it.