Book Name:Jhagray Ke Nuqsanaat
wife to live like a maid servant and a wife wants her husband to live with her like an obedient slave etc. Just ponder, when husband and wife develop such bad thoughts, then how will they spend their lives?
Due to the fight between husband and wife the future of their children is at great risk; their mental abilities become rusty. The advice of such parents does not have any effect on their children. Seeing their parents fighting, they also learn how to fight; they pay more attention to fights and quarrels than to their education. In short, the environment of the entire home is ruined due to daily quarrels. Finally, this quarrel leads to divorce. To what extent does the separation between husband and wife gives pleasure to Satan, can be judged by the following blessed Hadees.
Hadrat Sayyiduna Jabir رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ has narrated that the Noble and Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: Satan lays its throne on the water, then sends its troops. Amongst these troops, nearer to it (satan) in rank is the one who is the most Fitna-provoking one. One of them comes and says: I did such and such thing, so Satan says: You did nothing. Then another amongst them comes and says: I did not leave so-and-so until I brought about separation between him and his wife. Listening to it Iblees gets him closer and says: You are very good. Sayyiduna Imam A’mash رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه said: I think it was said: Embraces him. (Muslim, pp. 1157, Hadees 7106)
Dear Islamic sisters! It has become obvious that the act of separating a husband from his wife pleases Satan enormously. May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on our conditions and protect us from fights and quarrels and from provoking people to have fights and quarrels! In order to resolve the matters between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., satisfactorily do study the following three booklets namely, ‘Nachaqiyun ka ilaaj’, ‘Ghar Aman ka gehwara kaysay banay?’ and ‘Saas bahu mayn sulah ka raaz’ written by Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ. One will get great help in making home peaceful. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد