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mother. Hurting the feelings of the father, answering him back and talking to him whilst meeting his eyes rudely are all Ḥarām acts as well as disobedience to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ. It is not permissible at all for offspring to support either their mother or father in this way. Both of them are his Heaven and Hell. If he upsets anyone of them, he will deserve Hell, وَالۡعِيَاذُ بِاللّٰه (We seek refuge of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ). Also note that no one can be obeyed by disobeying Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
For example, if a mother wants her son to displease his father but he does not do so, i.e. he refuses to displease his father, and his mother gets displeased with him because of his refusal, then he should let her get displeased and should not listen to her at all in this matter. The same ruling will apply if his father asks him to displease his mother.
Scholars have elaborated that priority should be given to the mother when it comes to serving [parents], and preference should be given to the father when it comes to respecting them because one’s father has authority and power even over his mother.
(Derived from: Fatāwā Razawiyyaĥ, vol. 24, pp. 390)
If parents order to shave beard, do not obey
It has become evident that we should not obey our parents if they order us to do something contrary to Sharī’aĥ. It is a sin to obey them in impermissible matters. For example, if parents
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- OCEANIC DOME
- One who recited Ṣalāt-‘Alan-Nabī loudly was forgiven
- Injured finger
- Kiss the doorstep of Paradise everyday
- Two slaves freed for raising voice before mother
- Repeatedly earn the reward of Hajj Mabrūr
- Companion in Paradise
- Disobedient of parents is punished even in the worldly life
- Dumbness as punishment for not replying to mother
- Parents should refrain from cursing
- Return from abroad if parents call you
- Infant spoke!
- Walking six miles on hot stones with mother on shoulders
- If a man were to bear a child instead of a woman...!
- Explanation of the ruling on breastfeeding
- Wife deserves sympathy
- It is obligatory to obey even cruel parents
- Mother endures defecation of child in childhood
- Donkey-shaped dead person
- No act of worship done by disobedient offspring is accepted
- Those who have parents sworn at
- Those hanging with the branches of fire
- Three people will not enter Heaven
- If parents quarrel with each other, what should offspring do?
- Grave breaks ribs
- As many flames as raindrops
- If parents order to shave beard, do not obey
- What should one do if his parents died while they were displeased with him?
- Pay off debts of parents
- Reward of visiting grave of parents on Friday
- Madani Channel will bring Madanī reforms in every house
- Leg severed due to mother’s curse
- Apologise to parents by holding their feet beseechingly
- 15 Sunnaĥs and manners of walking
