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Bughz-o-Keena | Malice And Hatred
accepts whatever we say due to our awe, we will leave him with some harshness in his heart which can cause to open the door of malice, hatred, backbiting and defamation etcetera.
Sayyidatunā Umm-e-Dardā رَضِیَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَنْهَا stated, ‘Whosoever advised his brother in public, he stigmatized him and the one who did so in private then he graced him.’ (Shu’ab-ul-Īmān, vol. 6, pp. 112, Raqm 7641) On the other hand, if the secret advice does not work, he should then (according to his social position and at a proper time) be advised publicly. (Tanbīĥ-ul-Ghāfilīn, pp. 49; Ghībat kī Tabāĥ Kāriyān, pp. 160)
7. Do not send marriage proposals upon proposals
Sometimes it happens that a marriage proposal between two families is being considered when a third party meddles in the affairs, or during a business deal between two persons, someone as a third party interferes in the deal. In such cases, the second party being deprived of benefits, suffers from malice and hatred towards the third party being the spoiler of the deal. Therefore, one should shun meddling in such issues.
8. Do not discourage for nothing
Everyone likes to be encouraged whether he is able to finish the assigned work properly or not. On the other hand, some Islamic brothers cannot take any constructive criticism of their work, but consider it as though they are being discouraged and so they regard the critics quite negatively in their hearts. And thus we had better not criticize the work done by anyone. If he himself requests for criticism even then a careful way should be adopted. Firstly, all merits of his work should be recognized and he should be encouraged, for instance. Then demerits and rectifiable aspects should be expressed in proper words. But many people fail to understand this strategy
BOOK TOPIC
BOOK TOPIC
- Du’a for Reading the Book
- Translator’s Notes
- The Noble Prophet صَلَّی اللّٰہ تعالٰی علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم recited Salat-o-Salam upon himself
- The grave was infested with black snakes
- Treatment of concealed sins is absolutely necessary
- What does malice stand for?
- Bearing malice towards a Muslim and the ruling of Shari’ah
- Devastating effects of malice
- Malady of the previous Ummah
- Damages caused by malice
- 1. Tale-bearing & malice will lead towards Hell
- 2. Forgiveness is not granted
- 3. Deprivation of blessings and forgiveness
- The night of momentous decisions
- 4. He won’t smell the fragrance of Jannah
- 5. The danger of destroying one’s faith
- 6. Du’as (supplications) are not answered
- 7. Lack of devoutness
- 8. A door of other sins is opened
- 9. A malicious person remains restless
- 10. It destroys the societal peace
- Live as brothers among each other
- Muslims stand guard over one another
- The reason of seclusion
- Turning over a new leaf!
- The worst of malice & hatred
- Commination against malice & hatred towards the companions
- Ghastly end of a person who bore malice and hatred towards the Sahabah رَضِىَ اللّٰهُ عَنۡهُم
- The one feeling hatred towards the descendants of the Beloved Prophet will be whipped by the pond of Kawsar
- The enemy of the Ahl-e-Bayt is a Hell dweller
- The one bearing malice or hatred towards the Arabs will be deprived of intercession
- He who bore malice towards Arabs he bore malice towards me
- When the hatred against the Arabs is Kufr?
- Love the Arabs for three reasons
- Do we need to love the unbelievers of Arabia as well?
- The Arabs are fellow countrymen of our Holy Prophet صَلَّی اللّٰہ تعالٰی علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم
- Feeling hatred towards a scholar and knowledge will result in devastation
- He who bears malice against a religious scholar for nothing is spiritually ill with filthy inner self
- Malice and hatred of a Jew physician against Imam Maazri
- An act of penance for hatred against the Awliya Kiraam
- Individual efforts of a maternal uncle
- Bear no malice and hatred towards anyone in your heart
- Who is eminent?
- The dweller of Jannah
- It is essential to keep your heart clean along with your body
- I want to come to you with a clean heart
- Ponder over your heart
- SIX REMEDIES TO CURE MALICE
- 1. Make Du’a to prevent malice against faithful & pious people
- 2. Remove the causes
- A maiden of Jannah for one who controls his anger
- The first cause – anger
- Second cause – suspicion
- Third cause – gambling & drinking alcohol
- Fourth cause – abundance of bounties
- You will bear malice & grudge
- Bearing malice & hatred towards one another roots quickly
- 3. Make a habit of saying Salam and shaking hands
- 5. Love Muslims for the pleasure of Allah عزوجل
- 4. Stop irrational thinking
- 6. Bearing malice and hatred due to worldly possessions makes no sense
- Save your children also from malice and hatred
- Murdered younger sister
- What are we supposed to do if a person bears malice against us?
- Amnesty was announced on the conquest of Makkah
- Love replaced malice and hatred
- How a Jew full of hatred and malice embraced Islam?
- I had hatred towards you
- A malice bearer can also benefit you
- The ways to save others from your malice
- 1. Avoid interrupting someone’s conversation
- 2. Avoid smiling during condolences
- 3. Be careful in pointing out someone’s mistake
- 4. Act in accordance with the occasion
- 5. Seeking advice removes malice & hatred
- 6. The way to reform someone should be full of affection
- 7. Do not send marriage proposal upon proposal
- 8. Do not discourage for nothing
- 9. Do not scold others
- A servant showing his terms & conditions from far
- 10. Have spiritual treatment too
- No one will bear malice and hatred against any one
- There would be no malice or hatred among the dwellers of Jannah
- How can malice and envy exist!
- We might have a misunderstanding!
- Superior deed
- Further types of malice
- Did you ever show affection for those whom I love and bear malice towards my enemies?
- Person holding corrupt beliefs was not fed
- When a non-Muslim touched A’la Hadrat
- The company of those who hold corrupt belief, is a deadly poison for faith
- Religious or worldly education must not be acquired from a heretic
- The précis of the book
- The bearer of malice will face the following consequences
- Remedy for malice
- Ways to save others from malice towards you
- Glossary
- Bibliography
