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Bughz-o-Keena | Malice And Hatred
1. Avoid interrupting someone’s conversation
It is against the etiquettes to interrupt and cut someone’s talk while he is talking because he will suffer from malice against you. Sayyidunā ‘Abdullāĥ Bin ‘Abbās رَضِىَ الـلّٰـهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُمَا once said, ‘Do not interrupt a fool’s conversation for he will give you torture and do not break up the conversation of an enlightened person as he will feel hatred towards you.’ (Iḥyā-ul-‘Ulūm, vol. 2, pp. 224)
2. Avoid smiling during condolences
It is a nice deed to offer your condolences to a grieved, but on such an occasion avoid smiling, since your smile will cause malice and hatred against you in others’ hearts. (Majmū’aĥ Rasāil Imām Ghazālī, pp. 409)
3. Be careful in pointing out someone’s mistake
We must be careful while pointing out accent or grammatical mistakes in someone’s conversation because this might cause malice in the heart of that person. Probably with a view to the same prudence the following Shar’ī ruling has been stated in the book of Baĥār-e-Sharī’at: It is Wājib on the listener to inform the reciter when he makes a mistake during the recitation of the Holy Quran provided that this must not cause malice and hatred in his heart. (Baĥār-e-Sharī’at, vol. 1, part 3, pp. 553)
4. Act in accordance with the occasion
The place where people tend to act upon the etiquettes or Mustaḥabbāt in accordance with Sharī’aĥ, it will likely cause malice and hatred in the heart of people if you act upon otherwise. Thus, it is written in Baĥār-e-Sharī’at: When there is a fear that if you do not stand in respect of someone, he will bear malice and hatred towards you specially the place where there is a custom of standing in respect then
BOOK TOPIC
BOOK TOPIC
- Du’a for Reading the Book
- Translator’s Notes
- The Noble Prophet صَلَّی اللّٰہ تعالٰی علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم recited Salat-o-Salam upon himself
- The grave was infested with black snakes
- Treatment of concealed sins is absolutely necessary
- What does malice stand for?
- Bearing malice towards a Muslim and the ruling of Shari’ah
- Devastating effects of malice
- Malady of the previous Ummah
- Damages caused by malice
- 1. Tale-bearing & malice will lead towards Hell
- 2. Forgiveness is not granted
- 3. Deprivation of blessings and forgiveness
- The night of momentous decisions
- 4. He won’t smell the fragrance of Jannah
- 5. The danger of destroying one’s faith
- 6. Du’as (supplications) are not answered
- 7. Lack of devoutness
- 8. A door of other sins is opened
- 9. A malicious person remains restless
- 10. It destroys the societal peace
- Live as brothers among each other
- Muslims stand guard over one another
- The reason of seclusion
- Turning over a new leaf!
- The worst of malice & hatred
- Commination against malice & hatred towards the companions
- Ghastly end of a person who bore malice and hatred towards the Sahabah رَضِىَ اللّٰهُ عَنۡهُم
- The one feeling hatred towards the descendants of the Beloved Prophet will be whipped by the pond of Kawsar
- The enemy of the Ahl-e-Bayt is a Hell dweller
- The one bearing malice or hatred towards the Arabs will be deprived of intercession
- He who bore malice towards Arabs he bore malice towards me
- When the hatred against the Arabs is Kufr?
- Love the Arabs for three reasons
- Do we need to love the unbelievers of Arabia as well?
- The Arabs are fellow countrymen of our Holy Prophet صَلَّی اللّٰہ تعالٰی علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم
- Feeling hatred towards a scholar and knowledge will result in devastation
- He who bears malice against a religious scholar for nothing is spiritually ill with filthy inner self
- Malice and hatred of a Jew physician against Imam Maazri
- An act of penance for hatred against the Awliya Kiraam
- Individual efforts of a maternal uncle
- Bear no malice and hatred towards anyone in your heart
- Who is eminent?
- The dweller of Jannah
- It is essential to keep your heart clean along with your body
- I want to come to you with a clean heart
- Ponder over your heart
- SIX REMEDIES TO CURE MALICE
- 1. Make Du’a to prevent malice against faithful & pious people
- 2. Remove the causes
- A maiden of Jannah for one who controls his anger
- The first cause – anger
- Second cause – suspicion
- Third cause – gambling & drinking alcohol
- Fourth cause – abundance of bounties
- You will bear malice & grudge
- Bearing malice & hatred towards one another roots quickly
- 3. Make a habit of saying Salam and shaking hands
- 5. Love Muslims for the pleasure of Allah عزوجل
- 4. Stop irrational thinking
- 6. Bearing malice and hatred due to worldly possessions makes no sense
- Save your children also from malice and hatred
- Murdered younger sister
- What are we supposed to do if a person bears malice against us?
- Amnesty was announced on the conquest of Makkah
- Love replaced malice and hatred
- How a Jew full of hatred and malice embraced Islam?
- I had hatred towards you
- A malice bearer can also benefit you
- The ways to save others from your malice
- 1. Avoid interrupting someone’s conversation
- 2. Avoid smiling during condolences
- 3. Be careful in pointing out someone’s mistake
- 4. Act in accordance with the occasion
- 5. Seeking advice removes malice & hatred
- 6. The way to reform someone should be full of affection
- 7. Do not send marriage proposal upon proposal
- 8. Do not discourage for nothing
- 9. Do not scold others
- A servant showing his terms & conditions from far
- 10. Have spiritual treatment too
- No one will bear malice and hatred against any one
- There would be no malice or hatred among the dwellers of Jannah
- How can malice and envy exist!
- We might have a misunderstanding!
- Superior deed
- Further types of malice
- Did you ever show affection for those whom I love and bear malice towards my enemies?
- Person holding corrupt beliefs was not fed
- When a non-Muslim touched A’la Hadrat
- The company of those who hold corrupt belief, is a deadly poison for faith
- Religious or worldly education must not be acquired from a heretic
- The précis of the book
- The bearer of malice will face the following consequences
- Remedy for malice
- Ways to save others from malice towards you
- Glossary
- Bibliography
