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Hatho Hath Phuppi Say Sulah Karli | Instant Reconciliation with Paternal Aunt
Instant Reconciliation with Paternal Aunt
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5. Meeting relatives with gaps
One should meet his relatives on alternate days or with gaps, as appropriate, as it will develop affection. One can also meet his relatives weekly or monthly. The whole family and community should be united. One should also help his relatives when they are in the right in any issue. All of them should favour the truth with unity. (Durad, vol. 1, pp. 323)
6. Not fulfilling need of relative is sin
When any of the relatives requests help for the fulfilment of his need we must help him because turning down this request is like breaking ties with him. (ibid) (Remember that treating relatives with kindness is Wājib and breaking ties is a Ḥarām act leading to Hell.)
7. Keep relations with one who breaks relations with you
Kind treatment does not only mean treating those relatives kindly who have treated you kindly. This is actually an ‘exchange of treatment’. For example, sending a gift to the relative who has sent you a gift or going to the house of one who comes to yours. In actual fact, kind treatment means establishing ties with one who cuts off ties with you and caring about the relative who ignores you and stays away from you. (Rad-dul-Muḥtār, vol. 9, pp. 678)
صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
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- Instant Reconciliation with Paternal Aunt
- Excellence of Ṣalāt-‘Alan-Nabī صَلَّی اللہُ تَعَالٰی عَلَیْہِ وَاٰلِہٖ وَسَلَّم
- Instant reconciliation with paternal aunt
- Secret of reconciliation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
- Definition of ‘Ṣilaĥ-Riḥmī (صلَهٔ رِحۡمي)’
- Fulfill the financial and moral rights of relatives
- Ten virtues of treating relatives with kindness
- Restoring relations and treating relatives with kindness
- Traits of best person
- Quranic recitation, piety, call to righteousness and treating relatives with kindness
- Explanation of increase in age and sustenance
- Two sayings of Mustafa صَلَّی اللہُ تَعَالٰی عَلَیْہِ وَاٰلِہٖ وَسَلَّم
- Umm-ul-Mu`minīn Sayyidatunā Zaynab رَضِيَ اللّٰهُ عَنۡهَا and kind treatment to relatives
- Ten thousand dirhams distributed among relatives
- Refrain from severing relations with relatives
- Purposely considering the severing of relations as permissible is Kufr
- How is it to say the sentence ‘you are not my brother’ to a real brother?
- Mercy does not descend in the presence of relations-severing person
- Relations-severing person is deprived of forgiveness
- Make reconciliation with displeased relatives
- Accountability on the complaint of Amānaĥ (entrustment) and Ṣilaĥ-Riḥmī (kind treatment to relatives)
- Torment for breaking off relations
- It is Wājib to treat certain relatives with kindness
- What do ‘Żu-Riḥm Maḥram’ and ‘Żu-Riḥm’ imply?
- 7 Madanī pearls of treating relatives with kindness
- 1. Different levels of kind treatment to different relatives
- 2. Different conditions of treating relatives with kindness
- 4. Return from abroad if parents call you
- 3. Sending letters from abroad
- 5. Meeting relatives with gaps
- 6. Not fulfilling need of relative is sin
- 7. Keep relations with one who breaks relations with you
- How to think positive?
- Heavenly palace
- Giving Ṣadaqaĥ to the relative having concealed enmity
- Pain caused by relative
- Transliteration Chart
