2. “If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another besides Allah, I would have commanded a woman to prostrate to her husband. By the One in whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم! A woman cannot fulfil the rights of her Lord until she fulfils the rights of her husband.”^[1]

3. “A woman will not taste the sweetness of faith until she fulfils the rights of her husband.”^[2]

Reflect on this! These are the rights of the husband explained by the Prophet  صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم. These teachings should be given to married daughters, as well as those who are soon to be married. Unfortunately, in today’s society, divorces are increasing, western culture is being adopted rapidly, and, in a planned way, women are turning against their husbands. As a result, the family unit is being destroyed. We must acknowledge this unfortunate reality.

When a daughter visits her parents and speaks ill of her in-laws or her husband, backbiting them, she is not stopped. In fact, sometimes she is encouraged to continue. This sinful behaviour often leads too entire families being destroyed, and the future of children being ruined. We must understand these blessed teachings of the Prophet  صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم, especially parents of daughters. ^[3] 

Amir Ahl al-Sunnah’s Advice to his daughter

اَلْـحَمْـدُ لـِلّٰـه! Amir Ahl al-Sunnah, Mawlana Muhammad Ilyas Attar Qadiri             دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ is one who follows the blessed example of the Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم. Here is some of the advice he gave to his daughter:

1. Every command given by the husband that does not oppose Shariah