fulfilling the rights of the wife, abstains from sins and is religious, is an embodiment of knowledge, piety, modesty, and acting upon Sunnahs, is enriched with the fear of Allah Almighty and love of His Prophetصَلَّى الـلّٰـهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم , and is an Imam, Muazzin, Qaari, or attached to an Islamic environment, then مَعاذَ الـلّٰـه such hideous remarks are made regarding him that, ‘Oh! Our daughter will die out of starvation if she marries him’, ‘he’ll keep her shackled at home’, ‘he’ll keep her veiled from head to toe’ مَعاذَ الـلّٰـه.

Remember! Good parents always look for a religious person for their daughters’ and sisters’ wedding. اَلْـحَمْـدُ لـِلّٰـه the Beloved Prophet صَلَّى الـلّٰـهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has also commanded to marry a pious individual.

The Beloved Prophet صَلَّى الـلّٰـهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: ‘When such a person offers you a marriage proposal whose religiousness and character you like, then do Nikah with him. If you do not do this, then tribulations (Fitnah) and big evils will take form on earth.’ (Tirmizi, vol. 2, p. 344, Hadees 1086)

Hakeem-ul-Ummah, Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan Na’eemi رَحْمَةُ الـلّٰـهِ عَلَيْه states: meaning, when you find a religious person of a good character and habits for your daughter, then do not delay in the marriage of your young daughter out of the greed of wealth and in the wait for a millionaire. This is because in waiting for a wealthy guy, if girls are not married off, then a lot of girls will remain unmarried and a lot of guys will remain unmarried on the other hand, and this will lead to a surge in fornication which will cause humiliation for the girl’s family. The result of all this will be that families will fight each other leading to killing and bloodshed, which has started to become apparent now a days.’ (Mirat-ul-Manajih, vol. 5, p. 8, summarised)

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                                                            صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic brothers, Alas! All struggles these days are for the worldly education of the child. Nobody cares about the Islamic education and upbringing of the child. Every mother and father have dreams of making their child a doctor, engineer or pilot, but very few parents want to make their child a Hafiz of the Quran, a scholar, or a Mufti.

Parents desire to see their children live a fashionable and modern life, but hardly any parents want to see their child live their life according to the