*At some places, neighbours are each other’s enemies and at other places, families have disputes and quarrels between them.

   *At some places, loyal friends are in dispute with one another and at other places, an entire household seems like a battlefield.

Conflicts would not have risen in our society had we acted upon the blessed sayings of the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم; rather, our society would have reflected affection and well-wishing all around.

Let’s listen to 4 blessed sayings of the Holy Prophetصَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم  regarding the destructions of quarrelling.  

4 blessed sayings of the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم regarding the condemnation of quarrelling

   ۔1The Holy Prophetصَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم  has stated: The most disliked in the court of Allah Almighty is the one who is extremely quarrelsome.   (Bukhari, vol. 2, pp. 130, Hadees 2457)

   ۔2The Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: The one who quarrels without a reason always stays in the displeasure of Allah Almighty, until he abandons it. (Mawsu’ah Li Ibn-e-Abi Dunya, vol. 7, pp. 111, Hadees 153)

   ۔3The Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: No nation strayed after staying on guidance, but due to quarrels. (Tirmizi, vol. 5, pp. 170, Hadees 3264) 

   ۔4He صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: A person cannot reach the excellence in the reality of faith until he leaves quarrelling despite being right.

(Mawsu’ah Li Ibn-e-Abi Dunya, vol. 7, pp. 101, Hadees 139)

Whereas, the one who does not quarrel, the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said regarding him: ‘The one who abandons quarrelling whilst being at fault, a house will be built for him at the outskirts of paradise; and the one who abandons quarrelling whilst being right, a house will be built for him in the middle of paradise.’ (Tirmizi, vol. 3, pp. 400, Hadees 2000)

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                                                                 صَلَّى اللّٰهُ  عَلٰى مُحَمَّد