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Generosity of Siddeeq-e-Akbar
act, saying salaam to them, going to meet them, sitting with them, talking to them and treating them with a polite and kind manner. (Kitab-ud-Durar, vol. 1, pp. 323)
3. Write letters to them if you are abroad
If a Mahram relative (e.g. father, brother etc) is abroad, she should write letters to them. She should keep in touch with them so that the connection between them is not cut off. If they come back to their home country she should meet her Mahram relatives to freshen her relations with them. Like this, the love between them will increase. (Radd-ul-Muhtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
After the father, the grandfather and elder brother hold the highest status as the elder brother is a substitute of the father. The elder sister and (paternal) aunt are a substitute of the mother. (Rad-ul-Muhtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
4. Which relative should be met when?
One should meet Mahram relatives at regular intervals, as this increases love and affection. Rather, one should meet Mahram relatives every Friday or once a month, and the whole family should be united. When truth is with them, i.e. they are on the truth, then everyone should be united when wanting to raise awareness of the truth and facing the opposition. (Kitab-ud-Durar, vol. 1, pp. 323)
5. It is a sin to turn down a relative who presents a need in front of you
When a Mahram relative presents a need in front of you, then you should fulfil it. Rejecting it (i.e. not helping despite being capable to do so) is cutting off the ties. (Kitab-ud-Durar, vol. 1, pp. 323) (Remember! It is Wajib to treat Mahram relatives well and to cut off ties with them is a sin, Haraam and an act that leads to hell)
6. Treating relatives well means to keep ties with them even though they want to cut ties off
BOOK TOPIC
- Excellence of reciting Durood
- Important point
- Generosity of Siddeeq-e-Akbar رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ
- Intentions of listening to the Bayan
- Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and His Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم are sufficient
- A brief introduction of Sayyiduna Siddeeq-e-Akbar رَضِىَ اللهُ عَـنْهُ
- Freedom of Sayyiduna Bilal رَضِىَ اللهُ عَـنْهُ
- Status of Siddeeq-e-Akbar رَضِىَ اللهُ عَـنْهُ in the Quran
- Incomparable passion of well-wishing
- Serving Islam financially
- Matter of the Hereafter is upon the mercy of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ
- Serving the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم financially
- Testification by the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم
- Using like one’s own wealth
- 8 blessed sayings of the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم with regards to the virtues of charity
- Financial assistance of Muslims
- When he received a lot of grief from his relative
- 1. Which relative should be treated how?
- 2. Ways of treating relatives well
- 3. Write letters to them if you are abroad
- 4. Which relative should be met when?
- 5. It is a sin to turn down a relative who presents a need in front of you
- 6. Treating relatives well means to keep ties with them even though they want to cut ties off
- Method of thinking good of others
- He will gain a palace in Paradise
- Sunnahs and etiquette of saying Salam
