Book Name:Bahan Bhaiyon Ke Sath Husne Sulook

behave towards their youngers lovingly and affectionately, to take care of their needs and to give them good Tarbiyat. Let’s listen to two blessed sayings of the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم in this regard. 

The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said:

لَیْسَ مِنَّامَنْ لَّمْ یَرْحَمْ صَغِیْرَنَاوَیُوَ قِّرْ کَبِیْرَنَاوَیَعْرِفْ  لَنَا حَقَّنَا

The one who does not show mercy to our younger ones, does not respect our elders and does not know the right of a Muslim is not from us.

(Mu’jam-ul-Kabeer, vol. 11, pp. 355, Hadees 12276)

 

The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said to Sayyiduna Anas رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ: Respect the elders, show mercy to the youngers I and you will come like this on the Judgment Day. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم put his [blessed] fingers together. (Al-Matalib-ul-‘Aaliya, vol. 7, pp. 570, Hadees 3143)

Dear Islamic brothers! Have you noticed! Our Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has commanded us to behave affectionately towards younger siblings and respect elder siblings, but unfortunately at present the way we are getting away from righteous deeds, we are not treating our siblings kindly, fulfilling their needs, helping them in their ups and downs of life and taking care of their needs. There are some such unfortunate people who part from their siblings as their parents pass away and do not inquire after them for many months. At present, the treatment which is given especially to sisters is not hidden from anyone. الامان والحفیظ Let’s listen to an admonitory parable of the one who did not treat his sister kindly and became heedless of her rights and tremble with the Divine fear.

Well named Barhoot!

It has been narrated that a rich man intended to perform Haj. He entrusted 1000 dinars to another rich man until his return from Arfah. When he returned he found him dead. He asked his children about his money, but they had no idea of it. So he asked for the solution to this problem from the