Hadrat Sayyiduna Jabir رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ has narrated that the Noble and Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: Satan lays its throne on the water, then sends its troops. Amongst these troops, nearer to it (satan) in rank is the one who is the most Fitna-provoking one. One of them comes and says: I did such and such thing, so Satan says: You did nothing. Then another amongst them comes and says: I did not leave so-and-so until I brought about separation between him and his wife. Listening to it Iblees gets him closer and says: You are very good. Sayyiduna Imam A’mash رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه said: I think it was said: Embraces him. (Muslim, pp. 1157, Hadees 7106)

Dear Islamic brothers! It has become obvious that the act of separating a husband from his wife pleases Satan enormously. May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on our conditions and protect us from fights and quarrels and from provoking people to have fights and quarrels! In order to resolve the matters between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., satisfactorily do study the following three booklets namely, ‘Nachaqiyun ka ilaaj’, ‘Ghar Aman ka gehwara kaysay banay?’ and ‘Saas bahu mayn sulah ka raaz’ written by Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ. One will get great help in making home peaceful. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ.

صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                  صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Deprived of blessings

Dear Islamic brothers! One of the disadvantages of fights and quarrels is that its curse deprives a person of many blessings. For example, during a fight and quarrel someone gets a head injury, so someone loses his eye, someone breaks his arm, so someone receives an injury on his leg, someone gets his vertebra [any of the small bones that are connected together to form the spine] violently pulled, so someone loses his teeth, someone’s relative or friend loses his life, so someone falls victim to death. Remember! Fights and quarrels not only have many worldly disadvantages, but they also become the cause of many deprivations from the religious viewpoint.  For example, every Muslim knows that the night of Qadr is the great night in which the Holy Quran was descended; it [this night] is better than 1000 months; there is a blessed Surah regarding the excellence of this night in the Holy Quran [part