Book Name:Jhagray Ke Nuqsanaat
The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: I guarantee a home in the (inner) corner of Paradise to the one who does not pick a quarrel despite being rightful. (Abu Dawood, vol. 4, pp. 332, Hadees 4800)
Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ humbly requests in The Divine Court:
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ہر وَقْت جہاں سے کہ اُنہیں دیکھ سکوں میں |
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جنّت میں مجھے ایسی جگہ پیارے خُدا دے |
Dear Islamic brothers! Keeping in mind the above-mentioned blessed Hadees, if we study the life of pious predecessors رَحِمَهُمُ الـلّٰـهُ تَـعَالٰی, it will become as clear as day that these personages would act upon the blessed Hadees completely and would always avoid fights and quarrels, because they were not so-called devotees of Rasool, but rather they were filled with the true devotion to Rasool. Further, if someone quarrelled with them without any reason, so these Allah-loving people did not quarrel with them despite being right, but rather they would resolve the matter properly. Impressed with their splendid manners their opponents would also stop quarrelling and agree to get reconciled with them. Let’s listen to a faith-refreshing parable about it and rejoice.
I will not quarrel with you!
On page 362 of ‘Ihya-ul-Uloom’, vol. 3 published by Maktaba-tul-Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami it is stated: Sayyiduna Salim Bin Qutaibah رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has stated: Sayyiduna Bashir Bin Ubaydullah Bin Abu Bakrah رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه said while passing by me: Why are you sitting here? I humbly replied: Due to a quarrel that is going on between me and my paternal cousin. He said: There is some favour of your father upon me and I want to do something in return for it. (He then said:) I have not seen anything more than a quarrel that takes a person away from religion, reduces respect, ends pleasure and makes heart busy. Having heard this I stood up to leave, so my paternal cousin asked: What has happened? I replied: I will not quarrel with you. He said: So you have realized that I am right. I said: No, but I want to protect myself from it. He said: I do not ask for anything from you. (He