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Disadvantages of Fights & Quarrels
Ummah is agreed that Silah-Rihm [i.e. kind treatment with relatives] is Wajib and breaking off relations is Haraam.
It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness
Which are the relatives that must be treated with kindness as a Wajib obligation? Some scholars have stated that they are ‘Zu-Rihm Mahram’ and some other stated that they are Zu-Rihm relatives regardless of whether they are Mahram or not. Apparently, the latter ruling is more accurate. Ahadees contain an unconditional order of treating relatives with kindness. The Holy Quran also unconditionally stated ﴿ذَوِي الۡقُرۡبٰي﴾ (i.e. the relatives). However, as there are different levels of relations, there are also different levels of treating relatives with kindness. Parents have the greatest status. After them is the status of ‘Zu-Rihm Mahram’ (i.e. the relatives with whom marriage is Haraam forever due to Nasabi [i.e. genealogical] relation with them). After them is the status of the rest of relatives, depending upon how close relationship they have. (Rad-dul-Muhtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
To learn various Sunan, obtain the following books, Bahar-e-Shari’ah part 16 comprising of 312 pages and Sunnatayn aur Adaab, comprising of 120 pages, both published by Maktaba-tul-Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami. One of the best ways to learn Sunan is to travel in the Madani Qafilahs of Dawat-e-Islami with the lovers of the Beloved Rasool.
عاشقانِ رسول، آئیں سنّت کے پھول دینے لینے چلیں، قافلے میں چلو
[صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
The 6 Salawaat-‘Alan-Nabi and 2 Du’as that are recited in the Sunnah-inspiring weekly Ijtima’ (congregation) of Dawat-e-Islami:
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BOOK TOPIC
- Excellence of Salat-‘Alan-Nabi ﷺ
- Disadvantages of Fights & Quarrels
- Two Madani pearls
- Intentions of listening to the Bayan
- The whole city got ruined
- Four sayings about the condemnation of fights and quarrels
- Evils of Quarrel
- Heavenly Home
- I will not quarrel with you!
- Disadvantages caused by quarrels between husband and wife
- Throne of Satan
- Deprived of blessings
- Reason for keeping Night of Qadr hidden
- Another reason for fight is tale-telling:
- Home got destroyed due to tale-telling
- Madani Dars—one of the 12 Madani activities
- I have got rid of bad company.
- Illegal occupation of plots of land:
- Woman who tried to occupy land illegally went blind
- Majlis ‘Izdiyad-e-Hub’:
- How can we get rid of fights and quarrels?
- Summary of Speech
- Meaning of Silah Rihmi [kind treatment]
- It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness
- 1. The Salat-’Alan-Nabi for the night preceding Friday
- 2. All sins forgiven
- 3. 70 Portals of mercy
- 4. The reward of 600,000 Salawat-‘Alan-Nabi
- 5. Nearness to the Distinguished Rasool ﷺ
- 6. Durood-e-Shafa’at
- 1. Good deeds for 1000 days
- 2. An easy way to spend every night in worship
