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    ma’am with a stranger having a close personal relationship with him and she wants to murder you. If you want to get a proof of what I am saying, pretend that you are sleeping tonight with your eyes closed. Whatever the slave told aroused suspicion [in his heart] and that night he did the same. His wife thought that he was sleeping. With a razor in her hand she went near him to cut the hair of the beard. Her husband became sure that his wife wanted to kill him. He immediately stood up, snatched the razor and killed her. When the relatives of the woman learnt, they came quickly and killed him. Then the relatives of both fought against each other and almost 100 people were killed. (Ihya-ul-‘Uloom, vol. 3, pp. 195)

    حسد، وعدہ خلافی، جُھوٹ،چُغلی، غیبت و تُہمت

     

    مجھے اِن سب گناہوں سے ہو نفرت یارسولَ اللہ

    Through this parable we came to know that tale-telling is a very bad disease and it leads to the destruction of a peaceful home.

    Madani Dars—one of the 12 Madani activities

    Dear Islamic brothers! It has become obvious that tale-telling is the destructive habit that open doors to suspicions, discords, massacre, fights amongst families. Therefore not only protect yourself from fights and quarrels and the causes which lead to them, but also persuade your family members and friends to avoid them. In order to get the mind-set of getting rid of fights and quarrels and the things lead to them, achieve salvation from the disaster of tale-telling and get the mind-set of bringing about reconciliation between Muslims, associate yourself with the Madani environment of Dawat-e-Islami, the Madani movement of devotees of Rasool and take part actively in the 12 Madani activities of Zayli Halqah. One daily Madani activity out of 12 Madani activities is ‘Madani Dars’ which is the most effective source of gaining and imparting Islamic knowledge. Giving Dars from all the books and booklets except a few books and booklets and especially giving Dars from ‘Faizan-e-Sunnat Vol.1’ and its chapters “Backbiting”, “Call towards Righteousness” authored by Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ in

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    • Excellence of Salat-‘Alan-Nabi ﷺ
    • Disadvantages of Fights & Quarrels
    • Two Madani pearls
    • Intentions of listening to the Bayan
    • The whole city got ruined
    • Four sayings about the condemnation of fights and quarrels
    • Evils of Quarrel
    • Heavenly Home
    • I will not quarrel with you!
    • Disadvantages caused by quarrels between husband and wife
    • Throne of Satan
    • Deprived of blessings
    • Reason for keeping Night of Qadr hidden
    • Another reason for fight is tale-telling:
    • Home got destroyed due to tale-telling
    • Madani Dars—one of the 12 Madani activities
    • I have got rid of bad company.
    • Illegal occupation of plots of land:
    • Woman who tried to occupy land illegally went blind
    • Majlis ‘Izdiyad-e-Hub’:
    • How can we get rid of fights and quarrels?
    • Summary of Speech
    • Meaning of Silah Rihmi [kind treatment]
    • It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness
    • 1. The Salat-’Alan-Nabi for the night preceding Friday
    • 2. All sins forgiven
    • 3. 70 Portals of mercy
    • 4. The reward of 600,000 Salawat-‘Alan-Nabi
    • 5. Nearness to the Distinguished Rasool ﷺ
    • 6. Durood-e-Shafa’at
    • 1. Good deeds for 1000 days
    • 2. An easy way to spend every night in worship
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