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Disadvantages of Fights & Quarrels
§ home. If there is no one at home, say اَلسَّلامُ عَلَیْکَ اَیُّہاَ النَّبِیُّ وَ رحْمَۃُ اللہِ وَ
بَرَکاتُہ ٗ.
Some pious predecessors have been observed that they
recite
بِسْمِ اللہِ الرَّحْمٰنِ
الرَّحِیْم and قُلْ ھُوَ اللہ at the time of
entering home in the beginning of the day as it maintains unity at home (that
is, quarrel does not break out) and brings blessing in sustenance. (Mirat-ul-Manajeeh, vol. 6, pp. 9) Beseech in the court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ in order to get rid of
fights and quarrels and make Du’a raising your hands with tearful eyes for
achieving salvation from fights and quarrels.
§ Read again and again the blessed Ahadees and narrations, parables and sayings of Islamic saints about the virtues of avoiding fights and quarrels and disadvantages of having fights and quarrels.
§ Become humble.
§ Avoid the company of quarrelsome friends.
§ Control your anger.
§ Study the booklets namely, ‘Zulm ka Anjaam’ (Catastrophic Consequences of Cruelty), ‘Ihtiraam-e-Muslim’ (The Respect of a Muslim), ‘Ghusay ka Ilaaj’ (Cure for Anger) and the book namely, ‘Takleef na dijiye’. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ you will make up your mind to avoid fights and quarrels.
Teaching us and giving us the Madani pearls of advice, Ameer Ahl-e-Sunnat, Allamah Maulana Abu Bilal Muhammad Ilyas Attar Qaadiri Razavi Ziya’ee دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـهْ has said:
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تُو نرمی کو اپنانا جھگڑے مٹانا |
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رہے گا سدا خُوشْنُما مَدَنی ماحول |
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تُو غُصّے جھڑکنے سے بچنا وگرنہ |
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یہ بدنام ہوگا تِرا مَدَنی ماحول |
صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
BOOK TOPIC
- Excellence of Salat-‘Alan-Nabi ﷺ
- Disadvantages of Fights & Quarrels
- Two Madani pearls
- Intentions of listening to the Bayan
- The whole city got ruined
- Four sayings about the condemnation of fights and quarrels
- Evils of Quarrel
- Heavenly Home
- I will not quarrel with you!
- Disadvantages caused by quarrels between husband and wife
- Throne of Satan
- Deprived of blessings
- Reason for keeping Night of Qadr hidden
- Another reason for fight is tale-telling:
- Home got destroyed due to tale-telling
- Madani Dars—one of the 12 Madani activities
- I have got rid of bad company.
- Illegal occupation of plots of land:
- Woman who tried to occupy land illegally went blind
- Majlis ‘Izdiyad-e-Hub’:
- How can we get rid of fights and quarrels?
- Summary of Speech
- Meaning of Silah Rihmi [kind treatment]
- It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness
- 1. The Salat-’Alan-Nabi for the night preceding Friday
- 2. All sins forgiven
- 3. 70 Portals of mercy
- 4. The reward of 600,000 Salawat-‘Alan-Nabi
- 5. Nearness to the Distinguished Rasool ﷺ
- 6. Durood-e-Shafa’at
- 1. Good deeds for 1000 days
- 2. An easy way to spend every night in worship
