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Would that we could get rid of useless conversation!
1. Make conversation smilingly and politely.
2. With the intention of pleasing Islamic sisters, talk respectfully with the elders and kindly with the youngsters. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
3. Talking loudly as if you are shouting, as friends do, is not a Sunnah.
4. With good intentions, make it your habit to talk politely even with a newborn baby. Your manners will improve and the child will also learn good manners.
5. During a conversation, one should not do anything disgusting such as removing dirt from the body with the fingers, touching the nose or putting fingers into the ears, nose or repeatedly spitting etc. People are disgusted by such acts.
6. Calmly continue listening as long as the other person is speaking. Interrupting someone’s conversation is not a Sunnah.
7. There should be a genuine purpose of the conversation. Always talk to people according to their level of wisdom and awareness.
8. Avoid foul and indecent talks. Refrain from vulgarism. Remember! Swearing at a Muslim without any Shar’i permission is absolutely Haraam (Fatawa Razawiyyah, vol. 21, pp. 127) and Heaven is Haram on the one engaged in indecent conversation. (Kitab-us-Samt, pp. 204, vol. 7, Raqm 325)
To learn various Sunan, obtain the following books, Bahar-e-Shari’ah part 16 comprising of 312 pages and Sunnatayn aur Adaab, comprising of 120 pages, both published by Maktaba-tul-Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami.
BOOK TOPIC
- Excellence of Salat-‘Alan-Nabi صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم
- Two Madani pearls
- Intentions of listening to the Bayan
- Dear Father! Why don’t you speak?
- Bad conversation will make us fall flat on the face in the Hell!
- Definition of useless conversation
- ‘Individual effort’ one of the 8 Madani activities
- How did I escape from the quicksand of sins?
- Disadvantages of useless conversation:
- 1. Loses her respect:
- (3) Indulges in backbiting and fighting:
- (2) Uses foul language:
- (4) Speaks words of unbelief:
- It might be a useless conversation:
- Majlis Madani In’amaat
- Summary of speech:
- Du’a to stay safe from backbiting:
- Madani pearls of conversation
