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It is a fact that the risk of embarrassment is very low in silence, whereas one who speaks excessively has to apologize again and again after making a mistake. She regrets in her heart, ‘If I had not spoken anything at that time, it would have been better, because as a result of my speaking, the one who was listening to me spoke rudely to me and insulted me in front of many people, damaging my reputation as well. In this way, one who speaks uselessly loses her respect. Sayyiduna Muhammad bin Nadar Harsi رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has narrated: ‘Dignity i.e. honour is lost by talking excessively.’ (Al Mawsu’ah Ibn Abid Dunya)
یاالٰہی! فالتو باتوں کی عادت دُور ہو
کاش!لب پرکوئی بھی جاری نہ ہوبے جا کلام
(وسائلِ بخشش مرمم ، ۲۴۶)
Another disadvantage of speaking uselessly is that such a person finally uses obscene language and talks about immodesty which are extremely bad deeds. It does not suit any Muslim at all to use such a language. It is stated in a blessed Hadees: A true believer is not the one who finds fault with others, who curses others, uses obscene language and is immodest. (reference) The people, who destroy their Hereafter by indulging in immodest conversations using foul language in their friends’ gatherings, should learn an admonitory lesson.
(3) Indulges in backbiting and fighting:
Dear Islamic sisters! Useless conversation and useless questions generally lead to backbiting and a quarrel. If something is asked for a good purpose, there is no harm in it, but questions usually have no correct purpose. In fact, questions are asked for the sake of asking. For example, some people are habitual if they see something with somebody, they start asking questions
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