get your beard shaved, etc., so in this case, Shari’ah has forbidden to obey their order because it is not permissible to obey the creation by disobeying Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ.

Dear Islamic brothers! Unfortunately, due to a lack of Islamic knowledge there are a number of such unwise people who instead of sacrificing their joy for the sake of their parents’ joy, fulfil their Nafsaani [carnal] desire by deceiving their parents. Where we want, we forcefully try to convince our parents by hook or by crook. For example, if children grow up and there is a delay in their marriage due to any reason, so sometimes these unwise children make complaint of their parents in front of others by saying: Look, now this is the age of my marriage; this is the age to see the glories of youth; if my marriage does not take place even now, then will it take place in my old age? My parents do not worry about me; who will make them understand!!!

Some say! I have to marry only in that family. What do my parents know? I will do only what I want. My parents do not know what I know.

Some say! My friend has an expensive mobile phone, whereas I have a simple mobile phone. Don’t I have any right to live in this age?

Some say! The students of my school/college go to different places of entertainment for fun; they move about freely, but my father does think about me. I also have feelings. Should I be imprisoned in my home?

Some say! Those who spend time with me have very elegant dresses/clothes. I feel ashamed to spend time with such people due to my simple dress/clothes.

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ bless us with the success in understanding the feelings of our parents! Just ponder, who are the parents that do not want to see the joy of their children? Parents always think better for their children. They want to do many things for their beloved children, but sometimes their circumstances do not allow them. Someone’s old father is still working for his wages to run his home instead of resting. His mother, who is suffering from many diseases,