Book Name:Maan ke Dua ka Asar
mother was really answered for the great son and Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ made him Sardar. (Hayat-e-Muhaddis-e-A’zam, pp. 30)
پِیر و مُرشِد پر مِرے ماں باپ پر ہو سدا رَحمت اے نانائے حُسَیْن
سُـبْحٰـنَ الـلّٰــه عَزَّوَجَلَّ! Have you noticed! When a mother makes Du’a for her child, how its blessed effects appear that not only a meat trader became Jannati by virtue of his mother’s Du’a, but he was also blessed with the good news of becoming the neighbour of a Nabi in Paradise, whereas by virtue of the Du’a of his mother, Muhaddis-e-A’zam رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه was given the Sardari (leadership) of Deen and the world as well. It has also been learnt that our pious predecessors would get Du’as of their mothers after keeping them happy by looking after them. Therefore following in the footsteps of these Allah-loving people, we should also get ready to look after our mother so that we also become the apple of our mother’s eye and she feel pleased with us and make Du’as for us that O my Lord! Make my child Hafiz of Quran, Qari of Quran, preacher of Dawat-e-Islami, a practising Islamic scholar and a Mufti of Dawat-e-Islami; bless him with the success in both the worlds; make him enter Paradise without any accountability; be pleased with him forever, etc.! Let’s all make intention that we will continue to look after our parents; we will not disobey them; we will not speak rudely to them; we will lower our voice and gaze before them; we will be patient upon their harsh sentences and the things they do contrary to our mood; we will fulfil their needs; we will look after them in a better way as per our financial ability; we will take care of their likes and dislikes; we will help them in their suffering and trouble; we will not disturb them when they are taking a rest; we will try to bring round our angry parents; we will do good to them regarding their food, living, medicines and other things; we will obey every permissible order of theirs. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ
صَلُّوۡ اعَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
Dear Islamic brothers! Surely, it is a must for children to obey their parents. However, if parents order them to do anything contrary to Shariyya, such as