1.            He spent the funds inappropriately instead of distributing them to the poor.

2.            He runs after the people at the time of gathering votes.

3.            Now he does not care for us.

4.            He is living in the lap of luxury on the state treasury.

5.            We voted for him but he did not give us anything in return.

6.            He is a traitor of the state.

Thousands of sentences like these are uttered on daily basis by the people belonging to different classes and fields or they enjoy listening to such sentences, thus filling up their books of deeds with backbiting, slanders,         false accusations and taletelling. Shaykh-e-Tareeqat, Ameer-e-Ahl-e-Sunnat دَامَـتْ بَـرَكَـاتُـهُـمُ الْـعَـالِـيَـه has said: Some people are very strange; they want affirmation for every other statement like the following:

§  You know what I mean.

§  You understood what I meant, didn’t you? (However, teachers and elders can ask such questions when necessary, as they can be beneficial so the concept can be explained if needed.)

§  So, is that ok?

§  I am not wrong, am I?

§  What do you think?

Sometimes there are sentences or remarks which consist of backbiting and are unacceptable but some people showing considerations for others say yes to everything and by doing this they commit the sin of supporting a lie and backbiting! If a person does not have the courage to reform such talkative people, then he had better stay away from them, lest agreeing with such disapproving and sinful remarks of backbiting and slanders lead him to Hell. There are also times when such talkative people utter sentences of Kufr and sentences that lead a person to go astray. They then want to get confirmation of their listeners by saying ‘am I right?’ and deprive them of their faith