One priceless Madani pearl

Dear Islamic brothers! In such delicate circumstances, the mother of the believers, Sayyidatuna Khadija-tul-Kubra’s act of bearing difficulties and problems with a firm determination elevates over the other blessed wives of the Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم. Furthermore, we have also received this priceless Madani pearl from her blessed life that no matter how tough the circumstances are, no matter how terrible the difficulties one faces, you should never disobey Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and His Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم and you should not keep away from any kind of sacrifice for the sake of the beautiful religion brought by the Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم from Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ i.e. ‘Islam’.

تیرے نام پر سر کو قُربان کر کے تیرے سر سے صدقہ اُتارا کروں میں

یہ اک جان کیا ہے اگر ہوں کروڑوں              تیرے نام پر سب کو وارا کروں میں

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب       صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic brothers! We have also learnt a Madani pearl that a wife must stand by her husband in times of poverty and prosperity. Instead of arguing and unnecessarily complaining, she should always remain patient and be thankful. The quality of an exemplary wife who has a good-character is that she always thanks Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ for the blessings of her husband and is never unthankful by denying his favours. She very well understands that her husband is a strong support for her as well as blessings of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ for her; he fulfils her needs and because of him, she has the blessings of children.

The Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has laid stress on women to not be ungrateful to their husbands. Sayyidatuna Asma Bint-e-Yazeed رَضِیَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَنْهَا has said that once the Beloved and Blessed Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم passed by us, he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم made Salam to us and said: Avoid being ungrateful to those who do favours. We humbly asked: What does ‘being ungrateful to those who do favours’ mean? He replied: It was possible that any woman amongst you could have been without a husband for a long time and she remains with her parents and becomes old, but Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ grants her a husband and