Book Name:Silah Rehmi

1.         Being a human, forgive their mistakes and always behave gently towards them.

Rights of elder siblings upon their younger siblings

Similarly, the following are rights of elder siblings upon their younger siblings:

1.         To give them status according to their honour by showing great respect for them.

2.         To give them the status of parents in the absence of parents, otherwise consider them as their guardian and guide.

3.         To try and obey their permissible demands as far as possible.

4.         To apologize to them for your (younger siblings) mistakes.

5.         To try and abstain from upsetting their heart.

 

Dear Islamic brothers! If we also try to act upon these Madani pearls, then
اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ, by virtue of their blessings we will get rid of, to a great extent, the displeasure between siblings and the gaps which are widened due to their displeasure. At times, it also happens that two close relatives are annoyed with each other and despite efforts made, they are unable to be reconciled; in such circumstances, the relatives who are close to both of them face difficulties. How should both relatives who are displeased with each other be treated at the same time and how should they both be pleased? This is a very worrying matter. Regarding this, let’s seek some guidance from the blessed ‘Fatawa Razawiyyah’.

A reply full of wisdom

The summary of a question asked to A’la Hadrat, Imam-e-Ahl-e-Sunnat Maulana Shah Imam Ahmad Raza Khan عَـلَيْهِ رَحْمَةُ الـرَّحْمٰنْ is as follows: What do the Islamic scholars say about this ruling that Zayd has an elder paternal uncle and a sister who Zayd meets, but now there is a bitter quarrel between Zayd’s elder paternal uncle and his sister, and Zayd’s sister tells him: if you meet your elder paternal uncle, then I will not meet you. By chance, Zayd’s