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    Sunnah of the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم.

    اٰمِيۡن بِجَاهِ النَّبِيِّ الۡاَمِيۡن صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيۡهِ وَاٰلِه وَسَلَّم

     

    مِٹا دے ساری خطائیں مِری مٹا یا ربّ                         بنا دے نیک بنا نیک دے بنا یا ربّ

    رِہائی مجھ کو مِلے کاش نفس و شیطاں سے                تِرے حبیب کا دیتا ہوں واسطہ یا ربّ

    گناہ بے عدد اور جُرم بھی ہیں لا تعداد                        مُعاف کر دے نہ سہہ پاؤں گا سزا یا ربّ

     

    صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب       صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

     

    Question: If somebody falls in love, and commits sins such as evil glances etc., but there is no possibility to get married, then how can one get rid of this?

    Answer: This is certainly a situation which requires a lot of patience. One must repent sincerely from whatever sins were committed by him or her in the past and humbly plead to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ for freedom from this sinful love affair. Avoid evil glances, seeing any picture or receiving any gift or anything else that could make one think of the other person. He should immediately get rid of all these evil activities. He should not answer phone calls from the other person, or read letters, and totally avoid even thinking about that unlawful love as much as possible and instantly occupy himself in righteous deeds. Increase the love of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and His Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم in the heart and seek help from the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم:

     

    مَحَبَّت غیر کی دل سے نکالو یَا رسولَ الله!

    مجھے اپنا ہی دیوانہ بنا لو یَا رسولَ الله!

     

    Question: Please tell us a Wazifah [spiritual remedy] to attain relief from a love affair?

     

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