1.         First of all, sincerely repent to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! Because without the help of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ, a person does not have the power to prevent himself from sins.

2.         Read parables consisting of the virtues of forming the habit of forbearance and study the parables of the pious saints رَحِمَهُمُ الـلّٰـهُ تَـعَالٰی.

3.         Put fear in your Nafs from the torment of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ that the way I have power over this person, Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ has more power over me than this. If I get angry with him, then I will not be able to be safe from the torment of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ on the Day of Judgment.

4.         Similarly, ponder over the medical disadvantages due to anger, that it has a bad effect on the health.

5.         Repent abundantly as by its blessings اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ, you will give up this habit and develop hatred (for evils).

Dear Islamic brothers! If we want to adopt these ways of forbearance, suppress the anger, adopt the habit of affection and kindness and become a person of good manners, we must associate ourselves with the Madani environment. اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ, by its blessings, we will attain countless worldly and religious blessings.

عمل کا ہو جذبہ عطا یا اِلٰہی                       گناہوں سے مجھ کو بچا یا اِلٰہی

ہو اَخلاق اچھا ہو کِردار سُتھرا                      مجھے مُتّقی تُو بنا یا اِلٰہی

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب       صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

21 Summary of the Bayan

Dear Islamic brothers! In todays’ Bayan we have heard amazing parables about the forbearance of our Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم. No matter how deeply he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم was troubled, he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم never got angry for himself, he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would even forgive his cruel enemies.