Book Name:Hilm-e-Mustafa صَلَّی اللّٰہ تعالٰی علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم

This remarkable book contains precious Madani pearls about courtesy and politeness. It can be downloaded from the website of Dawat-e-Islami: www.dawateislami.net.

 

اس کو مولٰی تُو گناہوں سے بچانا ہر گھڑی

اس کو با اَخلاق با کِردار نیک انساں بنا

 

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب       صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

 

Dear Islamic brothers! Our Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم had such a distinctive and unparalleled rank of good-manners and courtesy that Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ Himself has stated in the Glorious Quran:

 

وَ   اِنَّکَ   لَعَلٰی   خُلُقٍ   عَظِیۡمٍ    ﴿۴﴾

Translation from Kanz-ul-Iman: And indeed you possess an exemplary character. (Part 29, Surah Al-Qalam, verse 4)

 

The Holiest Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: ‘بُعِثۡتُ لِاُتَمِّمَ مَكَارِمَ الۡاَخۡلَاق’, i.e.       I have been sent for the completion of good manners.

(Nawadir-ul-Usool lil-Hakeem Tirmizi, vol. 2, pp. 1107, Hadees 1425)

 

Therefore, that blessed personality whose purpose of being sent is to teach good manners, then what would be the state of his great manners!

7 Definition of forbearance and its importance

Dear Islamic brothers! Out of the pure attributes of our Beloved and Blessed Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم one beautiful attribute is forbearance. Forbearance means to suppress the anger by your own character. (Footnote: Seerat-e-Rasool-e-‘Arabi, pp. 293) i.e. to suppress anger when a person is filled with it, is called forbearance. Remember! Anger is in the human nature and a fact where we