Book Name:Faizan e Khadija tul Kubra

blesses her with wealth and children through him, despite this, when she gets angry she says: I have never seen any good from him.

(Musnad Imam Ahmad, vol. 10, pp. 433, Hadees 27632)

 

Dear Islamic brothers! Unfortunately, in our society, the majority of women commit the sin of ungratefulness. If they see a prosperous family or woman or her expensive dresses and very expensive jewellery, they start becoming ungrateful. As the Beloved and Blessed Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: I       have seen more women in Hell, because they are ungrateful. It was humbly asked: ‘اَیَکْفُرْنَ بِاﷲ’, Is it because they are ungrateful to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ? He replied: ‘یَکْفُرْنَ ا لْعَشِیْرَ وَیَکْفُرْنَ الْاِحْسَان’, i.e. they are ungrateful to their husbands and do not admit the favours. ‘لَوْ اَحْسَنْتَ اِلیٰ اِحْدٰھُنَّ الدَّھْرَ’, i.e. if you do any of them favours throughout your life, ‘ثُمَّ رَأَتْ مِنْکَ شَیْئاً’, i.e. then if she sees a little thing in you contrary to her mood or temperament, then she says ‘مَارأیتُ مِنْک خَیْراًقَطُّ’, I have never seen anything good from you. (Sahih Bukhari, vol. 1, pp. 23, Raqm 29)

 

Therefore, we should mention the virtues of patience and thankfulness to our family members. We should fulfil each others rights in a proper way and we should try to mend our strained relations. Remember! This beautiful relationship of love and affection between husband and wife can be maintained in a beautiful manner if the husband and wife fulfil each other’s rights properly. Indeed, both the husband and wife have been commanded to fulfil each other’s rights, therefore, both should fulfil each other’s rights in a gentle way, this is how our home can become the centre of peace and comfort.

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