Book Name:Baap Jannat Ka Darmiyani Darwaza He
It should have happened that stating Labbayk to the blessed sayings of Allah Almighty and the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم we should have got Du’as from our parents by looking after them with great zeal and enthusiasm, should have fulfilled their rights, should have carried out every permissible order of parents, should have come to them running by saying Labbayk when they called us, should have given priority to their needs, should have protected ourselves from the disobedience to parents, should have helped them in their difficult time, during their illness and in their old age and should have tried to please them in every way, but unfortunately, due to lack of Islamic knowledge, today the name of father has been included in the list of most oppressed people. Daughters usually take care of their father but sons make their father quite often sad and worried. Alas! Unfortunately the incidents of treating father badly are increasing. In the past, children used to fear that their father might become displeased with them, but now the father fears that his children might become displeased with him. A father alone nourishes five children happily, but five children cannot look after one father. If a father advises his children, his children turn a deaf ear to his advice by scolding him. If a father asks for money, children say sorry by giving different types of pretexts. If a father says some hard words for the betterment of his children, children frown at him and talk rudely to him. If a father falls ill, no one gets ready to take him to the hospital.
As long as a father earns money, children like him very much, but as he falls ill, is not able to work, makes any decision against the temperament of his children, forbids his children to do any work that is harmful to them, children do not understand. If a father is unable to give them money or gets old, so the importance of the father for his children does not remain less than any useless thing.
After the death of mother, father’s life usually becomes boring and he feels lonely. In a situation like this he greatly needs the sympathy of his children, but children become engrossed in themselves so much that they have no time even for inquiring after their father. The mistreatment that is especially committed to parents after the marriage is something very frightening and terrible. Father spends hundreds of thousands of rupees on the marriages of