inviting them to attend the Sunnah-inspired Ijtima’aat, giving them the mind-set for watching/listening to Madani Muzakarahs, encouraging them to take part in the collective I’tikaf and carrying out courses (Islah-e-A’maal Course, Faizan-e-Namaz Course, etc.), making them travel in Qafilahs, arranging Madani Halqas in their homes, making them join Madrassa-tul-Madinah Baalighan, taking part in the occasions of their happiness, grief, illness and bereavement, etc., and making them get hold of Awraad-e-Attariyyah in the case of them facing any difficulty. May Allah Almighty grant more success to Shu’bah Izdiyaad-e-Hubb.

اٰمِیْن بِجَاہِ النَّبِیِّ الْاَمِیْن صلَّی اللہ علیہ واٰلہٖ وسلَّم

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب                            صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Some etiquettes regarding the upbringing of children

O devotees of the Prophet! Let us now listen to some etiquettes of the upbringing of children from page 69 of the booklet, ‘Faizan-e-Madani Muzakarah: Part 8’:

*   The parents themselves sometimes play a role in making their children disobedient and rebellious; this is because the majority of parents are not trained themselves, which is why they cannot bring their children up in a correct manner.

*   It is foolish to rebuke children on every matter, as children become more rebellious like this. Therefore, instead of scolding them constantly, treat them with love.

*   Constantly shaming children in front of others causes their small hearts to become rebellious.

*   Do not complain about your children, in their presence, to respected individuals; for example, by saying, ‘Please explain him, he causes a lot of trouble, he is very mischievous, he does not listen to his parents,’ etc.; this is not a wise approach, because forget about child being rectified through this approach, the child will think, ‘My