opinion of her to earn reward and make our way to enter Paradise. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said: حُسْنُ الظَّنِّ مِن حُسْنِ الْعِبَادَۃِ i.e. Having good opinion is from excellent worship.

 (Abu Dawood, vol. 4, pp. 388, Hadees 4993)

Talking about different meanings of this blessed Hadees Hakeem-ul-Ummat Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan Na’eemi رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has written: i.e. Having good opinion of Muslims and not having bad opinion of them are one of the acts of good worship. (Mirat-ul-Manajeeh, vol. 6, pp. 621)

Palace in Paradise will be given to the one who…

Dear Islamic sisters! we should not lose heart and should maintain our relations with her. Sayyiduna Ubay bin Ka’b رَضِىَ اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ has narrated that the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: The person who likes that a palace for him [in Paradise] be built and his ranks be elevated should forgive the one who oppresses him, should bestow upon the one who deprives him of and should establish relations with the one who breaks off relations with him. (Mustadrak, vol. 3, pp. 12, Hadees 3215)

Giving Sadaqah to the one who conceals enmity is better

Anyhow, whether someone treats us well or not we should continue to treat her well. It is stated in a blessed Hadees: The best Sadaqah is that which is given to the relative who bears enmity in the heart. It is because giving Sadaqah to the relative who bears enmity in the heart is Sadaqah as well as good treatment with the one who breaks off relations.

(Al-Mustadrak, vol. 2, pp. 27, Hadees 1515)

May Allah Almighty enable all of us to always treat our relatives well!

اٰمِيۡن   بِجَاهِ   النَّبِيِّ  الۡاَمِيۡن   صَلَّى  اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى  عَلَيۡهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم

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