Book Name:Ramazan Ki Amad Marhaba
abuses someone or hurts her in any way, so for the sake of Allah Almighty instead of forgiving the offender, the person who has been hurt gets ready to fight her.
Remember! One should not speak such things at all which cause trouble to a Muslim, but rather one should become humble. We can stay safe from all these evils only when we protect our body parts from sins by making them also observe Sawm strictly (i.e. abstain from committing sins through them). The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said, ‘Sawm is not the name of only abstaining from eating and drinking, but rather Sawm is that one should avoid using useless and obscene language. If someone abuses you or behaves badly towards you, so say, ‘I am observing Sawm’.
(Mustadrak, vol. 2, pp. 67, Hadees 1611)
Now let’s have some examples of sins committed by body parts:
The sin committed by eyes is to see things which are declared Haraam by Allah Almighty. Every Muslim should protect their eyes from seeing Haraam things and should observe Sawm through their eyes by looking at only permissible things such as the Holy Quran, sacred Ka'bah, the fragrant streets of sacred Makkah, the Green Dome, the beautiful view of Arab deserts, etc.
The sin committed by ears is to listen to those things from which Allah Almighty has forbidden, therefore do not listen to songs and music at all, do not listen to false jokes, do not listen to backbiting, tale-telling and faults of other people etc., and do not eavesdrop any two Islamic sisters’ private conversation. Observe Sawm through ears! It can be done by listening to only permissible things such as listening to recitation of the Holy Quran, Hamd and Na'ats and Manqabat about pious predecessors, Sunnah-inspiring speeches and Madani Muzakarahs and good things.
The sin committed by a tongue is to utter those things which displease Allah Almighty, therefore protect the tongue from being impure by abusing, lying,