Book Name:Aulad Ki Tarbiyat Aur Walidain Ki Zimadariyan
of city! Do you like what a villager said?’ I said: ‘By Allah Almighty! I liked it.’ She said:
٭ Son! Refrain from deception. Because the matters you deal in with people, deception is worst among them all.
٭Adopt generosity, knowledge, humbleness and modesty. Now, I hand you over to Allah Almighty. May peace be [showered] upon you. May Allah Almighty have mercy upon you.
٭Remember! Backbiting is a greater sin than even fornicating 30 times in the state of Islam. (Aansu’on ka Darya, pp. 249)
2. Tajdar-e-Madani In’amaat and upbringing of children
Mother of the children (wife) of
Muballigh-e-Dawat-e-Islami and member of the Markazi Majlis-e-Shura, Haji Abu
Junayd Zam Zam Raza Attari
رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه states that late Haji Zam Zam رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه loved
his children immensely. When his daughters would come home, then despite all
his commitments, he رَحْمَةُ
اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه would come home to meet
them. If he would talk a bit strictly while reforming someone at home due to
their mistake, then he would clarify at the same time that ‘I am explaining you
guys for the salvation of the Hereafter and for your own good.’
While eating food, he رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه would get kids to recite the Du’as and he رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه would eat according to Sunnah. He رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه would take his sons with him for Salah as much as possible. When he would leave to travel with a Madani Qafilah, then he would emphasize on instructing them to offer Salah. Moreover, even during the travel, he رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه would inquire through S.M.S whether they have offered Salah or not. Even in the state of illness, he said to his elder son: ‘As soon as I recover, we both will اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ travel with Madani Qafilah.’
O devotees of Rasool! The aforementioned accounts contain Madani pearls of advice for both, parents and children. It is a fact that good parents never become heedless from the Madani upbringing of their children. Rather, they keep striving to advise and reform them. If they themselves offer Salah, act