Nabi-e-Kareem Ki Mubarak Shehzadiyon Kay Fazail

Book Name:Nabi-e-Kareem Ki Mubarak Shehzadiyon Kay Fazail

She رَضِیَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَنْهَا attained the privilege of being among the first caravan of Muslims that migrated in Islam. (Seerat-e-Mustafa, pp. 694) She رَضِیَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَنْهَا attained the privilege of migrating twice to Abyssinia and once to Madinah. (Tareekh-e-Damashq, vol. 3, pp. 151) Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم married her to Ameer-ul-Mu`mineen, Sayyiduna Usman-e-Ghani رَضِىَ اللهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُ. Both these husband and wife first migrated towards Abyssinia and then towards Madinah, and were blessed with the title of Sahib-ul-Hijratayn (i.e. those who migrated twice).      

Dear Islamic brothers! Before Islam, wives used to be severely oppressed. They used to get beaten up and their rights were usurped. When Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم came to this world as a mercy, then he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم not only stressed upon the husbands to treat their wives nicely but also mentioned them the virtues of treating their wives nicely. Let’s listen to 3 blessed sayings of the Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم regarding treating wives nicely:

3 blessed sayings of the Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم regarding treating wives nicely

1. Best among you is the one who is best for his household, and I am best for my household among you all. (Tirmizi, vol. 5, pp. 475, Hadees 3921)

2. The best among you all is the one who is good to his wives and daughters. (Shu’ab-ul-Iman, vol. 6, pp. 415, Hadees 8720)   

3. No believer shall consider any believer wife to be enemy. If he is displeased of any of her habits, then he will be pleased with any other habit. (Muslim, pp. 775, Hadees 1469)

Regarding this blessed Hadees, Hakeem-ul-Ummah, Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan
رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has stated: سُـبْحٰـنَ الـلّٰــه عَزَّوَجَلَّ! What beautiful teaching (he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has taught). The purpose of saying this is that it is impossible to find a flawless wife. Therefore, even if you find a few flaws in the wife, then bear it as you will find a few attributes (in her) as well. Author of Mirqaat (رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه) states here that the one who remains in the search of a flawless companion will end up being on his own in this world. We ourselves have thousands of