The curse of bad manners can cause separation of two families.

The curse of bad manners causes the near ones go away.

An ill-mannered person repents of one sin and starts committing another sin that is even worse than the previous one. (Jami’-ul-Ahadees, vol. 2, pp. 375, Hadees 6064)

An ill-mannered person gets unsuccessful over and over again. In short, bad manners are the collection of abundant evils and are a cause of destruction in the world and the Hereafter.

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ protect every Muslim from the curse of bad manners!

اٰمِيۡن بِجَاهِ النَّبِيِّ الۡاَمِيۡن صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيۡهِ وَاٰلِه وَسَلَّم

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب              صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic sisters! We have just heard about the worldly and Hereafter disadvantages of bad manners. Would that we could also develop hatred towards bad manners after listening and could also develop the mind-set to repent of them! Now let’s listen to 14 ways of becoming paradigm of well-mannered and also make intention to act upon them:

Ways of forming habit of good manners

1.         In order to be a paradigm of well-mannered, beseech humbly raising your hands in the court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ make Du’a tearfully for the salvation from bad manners.

Read and listen over and over again to the blessed Ahadees and narrations, parables and sayings of pious predecessors consisting of the advantages of good manners and the disadvantages of bad manners.

Keep silent for most of the day and form your habit to have either written or non-verbal communication as far as possible.