1.         If children make a mistake, they should be made to understand with love. Parents can become strict if it is necessary, but remember, to become angry unnecessarily or too much can sow the seeds of hatred in the little hearts of children.

2.         Also keep this in mind that too much love for children is not love for children, but it is a deadly poison for them. (When it is necessary to advise or teach them manners and discipline them, they should immediately be made to understand in an easy way).

Study the 188-page book namely, ‘Tarbiyyat-e-Awlad’ [Upbringing of Children] and booklets ‘Awlad kay Huqooq’ [Rights of Children] and ‘Bayti ki Perwarish’ [Upbringing of Daughter], obtain these books (and much more) from Maktaba-tul-Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami for more Madani pearls about the best upbringing of children.

Summary of Speech!

Dear Islamic brothers! In today’s speech, we have heard about the love that the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم had for Hasanayn Karimayn.

§  The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم loved both of them very much. It is the expression of the same love and upbringing that the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم gave both of their names.

§  The ‘Aqeeqah of Sayyiduna Imam Hasan and Husayn رَضِىَ الـلّٰـهُ تَـعَـالٰی عَـنْـهُمَا was performed by the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم himself and their upbringing was also given by the Rasool of Rahmah صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم himself.

§  He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would have Hasanayn Karimayn ride on his blessed shoulders. In short, the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would make them happy in every act and would express his everlasting love for them.

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ not only enable us to have devotion to Hasanayn Karimayn, all the blessed Ahl-e-Bayt and all the blessed companions رَضِىَ الـلّٰـهُ تَـعَـالٰی عَـنْـهُم, but