knowledge and practice [upon the knowledge], modesty and Sunnahs, whose heart is filled with the fear of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and the devotion to Beloved Mustafa صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم, who is the Imam of a Masjid, Muazzin, Qaari or associated with the Madani environment, so مَـعَـاذَ الـلّٰـه عَـزَّوَجَـلَّ they speak such sentences for him: If our daughter marries him, she will die of hunger, he will confine her to his home, he will keep her in purdah from head to toe, etc.

Remember! Good parents do not commit this careless act at all, but rather they always look for a pious person for the Nikah (marriage) of their sisters and daughters.

اَلْـحَمْـدُ لـِلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ, our Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has also commanded us to marry a pious person.

The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said, ‘When a person whose piety and manners you like, sends you a proposal of Nikah [marriage], perform Nikah (of your daughter) to him. If you don’t do it, then big Fitnahs (turmoil) and chaos will break out on the earth.’

(Sunan-ut-Tirmizi, Kitab-un-Nikah, pp. 344, vol. 2, Hadees 1086)

Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan Na’eemi رَحْمَةُ الـلّٰـهِ تَـعَالٰی عَـلَيْه has stated, ‘When you receive a proposal for your daughter from a righteous and pious man bearing high morals and good habits, do not delay the marriage of your young daughter out of greed for wealth waiting merely for a rich and prosperous match. It should be noted that if people wait for the wealthy, both young men and women will remain unmarried leading to spread of fornication which will bring disgrace upon the family of the woman. As a result, the families will fight and kill each other which is becoming obvious nowadays.’

(Mirat-ul-Manajih, Kitab-un-Nikah, vol. 8, pp. 548)

Dear Islamic brothers! Children are one of the greatest blessings of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ. Children are a blessing which bring about happiness in the home. Righteous children are a blessing which become a support for their parents in their old age. Good children bring about the salvation of their parents when parents die. Whenever Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ blesses parents with a child, they are over the moon, but with the arrival of this blessing their trial also begins. Now it is up